Episode 78: Sacred Spiritual Relationships with Tamara Powell

Have you ever thought of relationships as sacred and spiritual spaces? Join us for a conversation that takes a deep dive into concepts you’ve never considered before and open your eyes to new ways to think of yourself and your relationships to others. 

My guest, Tamara Powell, LMHC, is a colleague, and past guest of the show. Her favorite topic sacred psychology -the intersection between traditional psychology with a focus on the holistic self, including the spirituality of a person- honors the divine nature in all of us and the connection to a higher power. In her Pensacola, Florida practice Tamara works with clients about anxiety, identity exploration, relationships, LGBTQ issues, sexual issues, and spiritual abuse and trauma. She describes herself as “rebel and a visionary with the heart and soul of a gypsy.”

Relationships can be mirrors, revealing and polishing our growth edges. Tamara explains these spaces as “heavenly sandpaper,” or the spaces in life that rub us and cause us to grow and explore. Life is full of reflection points that grow our self-esteem as we learn how to more realistically see the world. And yet, sometimes we feel like misfits, or “a trapezoid in a world full of circles.” Tamara believes that suffering results when people don’t fit in. 

Tamara shares the concept of “radical autonomy” and what it entails. How do we connect with another person while remaining intact? There are numerous ways to apply this thinking to any human relationship. Relevant in today’s society is the question, “can I celebrate another’s culture while taking pride in my own?” Radical autonomy comes into play and is useful when we learn NOT to be triggered by things like social media posts. It’s what it means to fully embrace another person’s everything. We discuss what truth really is, how to honor your perception and the other person’s as well, and how to identify the “gremlins” in a relationship. 

Quotes:

 "Misuse of a human being results when the sacred nature within a person isn't honored." - Tamara Powell

"Misuse of a human being results when the sacred nature within a person isn't honored." - Tamara Powell

 "It's the messy in-between shadowy spaces where intimacy grows." - Rebecca WOng

"It's the messy in-between shadowy spaces where intimacy grows." - Rebecca WOng

 "Truth can be subjective and intangible. Your truth may be different from my truth." - Tamara Powell

"Truth can be subjective and intangible. Your truth may be different from my truth." - Tamara Powell

 "I need to be so grounded in who I am that I don't need to be reactive." - Tamara Powell

"I need to be so grounded in who I am that I don't need to be reactive." - Tamara Powell

 

Resources:

 

Tamara’s practice:  www.aryatherapy.com

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